{"id":2439,"date":"2021-06-01T13:56:24","date_gmt":"2021-06-01T13:56:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livingstonesministries.org\/help4families\/?p=2439"},"modified":"2026-04-14T06:20:41","modified_gmt":"2026-04-14T06:20:41","slug":"when-a-husband-thinks-hes-a-she","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livingstonesministries.org\/help4families\/when-a-husband-thinks-hes-a-she\/","title":{"rendered":"When a Husband thinks he&#8217;s a she"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-ca5ff7a6 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div style=\"font-size:24px\" class=\"has-text-align-center has-link-color adobe-reg-italic wp-elements-85a8a21107b8ee66b96e773a6aa630b7 wp-block-post-date has-text-color has-web-light-green-color\"><time datetime=\"2021-06-01T13:56:24+00:00\">June 1, 2021<\/time><\/div>\n\n<h2 style=\"color:#ffffff;font-size:45px;font-style:normal;font-weight:600;text-transform:uppercase;letter-spacing:4px\" class=\"has-text-align-center has-link-color proxima-font wp-elements-8489a226fd32958d683121eb2fa02d00 wp-block-post-title has-text-color\">When a Husband thinks he&#8217;s a she<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-4cc50271 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5e9b500b6c97be2ef21ffe58498f4cae wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\"><em>When a Husband Thinks He\u2019s a She<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-2186270fea773856c8f95957120d4f51 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\">What do you say to a woman who shares the painful secret that her husband thinks he is a woman? In a world where right is wrong and wrong is right, families and the church are confronted with a variety of issues that often are not as black and white as they were one generation ago. The media, some counselors, and pseudo-science findings argue that a woman facing such a situation needs to accept that her husband really is a woman trapped inside a man\u2019s body, and she should also accept and embrace his cross-dressing behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5f4184a89485189df20f036f031bbd8e wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\">God intends that the marriage covenant be a lifelong, fruitful relationship between a man and&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; a woman. Marriage is a vow to God, to each other, and to our families to remain steadfast in unconditional love, reconciliation, and sexual purity. But how can a marriage prosper when the husband wants to be the wife, wearing make-up and women\u2019s clothes? A man who gets caught up in such behavior can become as deeply trapped by it as Ebenezer Scrooge was in his insatiable lust for more money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-0df9eb4cd504c423080f4b31b355d474 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\">A woman caught in such a marriage might very well love her confused husband and desire with all her heart to honor their covenant, but she feels alone and lost. Hope for such a situation comes not in accepting the myth of who the man thinks he is, but in embracing who God really created him to be in Christ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-94103f3fb18a758cc5fb65b565fa88b3 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\">Some of us might recoil at the husband\u2019s strange behavior, but remember, his wife is hurting and scared. If she has small children, she has the added burden of trying to shield them from their father\u2019s confusing behaviors. And, as the children grow older, at some point she likely will have to figure out a way to explain the strange things Daddy does. The wife cannot heal her husband\u2019s bizarre behaviors, false belief system, or heart attitude. Only God can do that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-bbc8643119b7d73656e2b7207d2a6293 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\">When a husband wears women\u2019s clothing, his wife needs prayer. This, of course, is the standard response in the&nbsp; church,&nbsp; and&nbsp;&nbsp; it&nbsp; is also the best place to start. A strong women\u2019s group of prayer warriors is a priceless gift for the wife. Friends and family need to love her where she is. Their love and compassion will be part of her healing. She belongs in God\u2019s hands\u2014that is where she will receive all she needs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"gsp_post_data\" \r\n\t            data-post_type=\"post\" \r\n\t            data-cat=\"uncategorized\" \r\n\t            data-modified=\"120\"\r\n\t            data-created=\"1622555784\"\r\n\t            data-title=\"When a Husband thinks he&#8217;s a she\" \r\n\t            data-home=\"https:\/\/livingstonesministries.org\/help4families\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When a Husband Thinks He\u2019s a She What do you say to a woman who shares the painful secret that her husband thinks he is a woman? In a world where right is wrong and wrong is right, families and the church are confronted with a variety of issues that often are not as black &#8230; <a title=\"When a Husband thinks he&#8217;s a she\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/livingstonesministries.org\/help4families\/when-a-husband-thinks-hes-a-she\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about When a Husband thinks he&#8217;s a she\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Denise Shick","author_link":"https:\/\/livingstonesministries.org\/help4families\/author\/denise\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"When a Husband Thinks He\u2019s a She What do you say to a woman who shares the painful secret that her husband thinks he is a woman? 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