{"id":2522,"date":"2020-02-10T13:56:23","date_gmt":"2020-02-10T13:56:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livingstonesministries.org\/help4families\/?p=2522"},"modified":"2026-04-14T06:20:41","modified_gmt":"2026-04-14T06:20:41","slug":"childhood-hurts-are-not-forgotten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livingstonesministries.org\/help4families\/childhood-hurts-are-not-forgotten\/","title":{"rendered":"Childhood hurts are not forgotten"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-ca5ff7a6 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div style=\"font-size:24px\" class=\"has-text-align-center has-link-color adobe-reg-italic wp-elements-85a8a21107b8ee66b96e773a6aa630b7 wp-block-post-date has-text-color has-web-light-green-color\"><time datetime=\"2020-02-10T13:56:23+00:00\">February 10, 2020<\/time><\/div>\n\n<h2 style=\"color:#ffffff;font-size:45px;font-style:normal;font-weight:600;text-transform:uppercase;letter-spacing:4px\" class=\"has-text-align-center has-link-color proxima-font wp-elements-8489a226fd32958d683121eb2fa02d00 wp-block-post-title has-text-color\">Childhood hurts are not forgotten<\/h2><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-7a5f272d alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-433d69570e0041068b17f9710bf03a8a wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\"><strong>H4F Blog<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-8a6b3a747f05378facd00fbaf27e8d8a wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\"><strong>Childhood hurts are not forgotten<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a3052b254fcbdbb5b94a1955a84fa344 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\">How important is the influence of each parent to the overall health of a developing child?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7be9886d4994c47a51e1929bd3958993 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\">Molly, a former female to male transgender, wrote, \u201cI really believed that somehow my parents divorce was my fault, that if I had been the son my father wanted, he would not have left. I knew at a very young age that the only name chosen prior to my birth had been a boy\u2019s name.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-05cb9077314a4d8bf04c46be45cf1d0b wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\">John White in his book <em>Eros Redeemed<\/em> states that tour gender identity has to do with our sense or perception of our being manly or womanly, masculine or feminine. The inference is that gender identity has nothing to do with biology or what is physically true, but rather what we think about ourselves as men and women and how well we feel we fit that definition of what the really masculine male or really feminine woman should be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-52bfe5244737a19eec6091140b625519 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\">The seeds of gender identity confusion took root long ago, and what you see now is the fruit of the confusion. Our perception of who we really are is already warped. Satan is the master of deception, and he is invested in keeping us confused and deluded as to who we are and what we really mean to God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-eee23ea782a18a5bcb4938de69c98211 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\">Our culture also promotes distortion and confusion. That confusion can drive us to live a life of unbelief that eventually propels us toward bondage in sexual sin, acting on our desires, and driving us far away from God and His destiny for us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"adobe-reg blog-link has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7fcf2a7ee1062a86b689be76e4e175e9 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1a1a1ab3;font-size:18px;letter-spacing:0px\">May God be with each of us struggling to find and accept who we really are.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"gsp_post_data\" \r\n\t            data-post_type=\"post\" \r\n\t            data-cat=\"uncategorized\" \r\n\t            data-modified=\"120\"\r\n\t            data-created=\"1581342983\"\r\n\t            data-title=\"Childhood hurts are not forgotten\" \r\n\t            data-home=\"https:\/\/livingstonesministries.org\/help4families\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>H4F Blog Childhood hurts are not forgotten How important is the influence of each parent to the overall health of a developing child? Molly, a former female to male transgender, wrote, \u201cI really believed that somehow my parents divorce was my fault, that if I had been the son my father wanted, he would not &#8230; <a title=\"Childhood hurts are not forgotten\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/livingstonesministries.org\/help4families\/childhood-hurts-are-not-forgotten\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Childhood hurts are not forgotten\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2522","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Denise Shick","author_link":"https:\/\/livingstonesministries.org\/help4families\/author\/denise\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"H4F Blog Childhood hurts are not forgotten How important is the influence of each parent to the overall health of a developing child? 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