Help Is
HERE FOR YOU!
HELP FOR FAMILIES IMPACTED BY TRANSGENDERISM
CHILD AND PARENTAL RIGHTS CAMPAIGN
Testimonies
Check out more testimonies on our testimony page
Devoted to Help
OUR MISSION IS TO HELP FAMILIES AND THEIR LOVED ONES IMPACTED BY TRANSGENDERISM.
My Story
SECRETS I KNEW
Secrets I Knew but did not share
What was your biggest concern when you were nine years old? Was it trying to memorize your multiplication facts? Was it that the school cafeteria might serve your least favorite vegetable at lunch? Perhaps it was something more serious, that your parents were talking of getting divorced. My biggest concern at age nine was how to keep my daddy’s secret, the one he revealed to me as we sat alone on the hill near our home. My dad wanted to be a woman, and along with that revelation, he included several sordid sexual details.
His confession left me confused and hurt. I desired to have a dad who would love and cherish me—who would make me feel special. I wanted to try to “fix” him so he’d be the kind of dad any normal nine-year-old would want. But I couldn’t fix him. And, as I soon learned, he didn’t want to change. By the age of eleven, I had experienced emotional and sexual abuse by my dad. I continued to keep my daddy’s secret and mine locked away deep down in my heart.
I began to reason that my dad’s apparent lack of love for me meant I wasn’t really his daughter, that he and my mom must have adopted me. Often, when I was home alone, I’d scour the house—even the attic—for paperwork that would confirm my suspicions. But my searches were fruitless.
Change my house many times.
Change, change, change, change.
Yet I am missing something.
The something is completeness!
My heart aches from my losses.
From my incompleteness.
Is this the way it will always be?
That I will never be complete?
Yet everything else changes!
