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OUR MISSION IS TO HELP FAMILIES AND THEIR LOVED ONES IMPACTED BY TRANSGENDERISM.
My Story
SECRETS I KNEW
Secrets I Knew but did not share
What was your biggest concern when you were nine years old? Was it trying to memorize your multiplication facts? Was it that the school cafeteria might serve your least favorite vegetable at lunch? Perhaps it was something more serious, that your parents were talking of getting divorced. My biggest concern at age nine was how to keep my daddy’s secret, the one he revealed to me as we sat alone on the hill near our home. My dad wanted to be a woman, and along with that revelation, he included several sordid sexual details.
My Dad As A Man
Thinking about a sex change? Don’t do it! That is the advice I wish someone would have given me. I had the sex change. I “pass” fine, my career is good but you cannot imagine the number of times I’ve wished I could go back and see if there was another way. Despite following all the rules and being as honest as I could with the medical folks at each stage, nobody stopped me and said, “Are you honest to God absolutely sure this is the ONLY path for you?” To the contrary, the voices all cheerfully supported my decision by parading their ‘successful transition” and encouraging others to do the same.
My Dad As Becky
Restoration begins with the desire to become reconciled with early, unresolved childhood emotional wounds; events in early developmental years which threatened or undermined a person’s feelings of security, peace, warmth, comfort, and a secure sense of being deeply and unconditionally/uniquely loved.
Change my house many times.
Change, change, change, change.
Yet I am missing something.
The something is completeness!
My heart aches from my losses.
From my incompleteness.
Is this the way it will always be?
That I will never be complete?
Yet everything else changes!
