In a perfect world, Christmas is a time to of happiness, peace, and smiles as everyone celebrates the birth of Jesus Christ. But we don’t live in a perfect world. Problems exist, hearts are heavy, and the struggle can be painful for families of LGBT loved ones. We can allow the emotional and mental challenges of the holidays to plunge us into despair, or we can stand confident in Jesus’ promise: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls” (Mathew 11:28–29).

So how do we navigate the holiday season? First, we focus on the hope made possible because of Christ’s birth. If you’re feeling overburdened, kneel down and pray. Ask God for His strength, wisdom, and peace. As you close your prayer time, stay still and allow yourself to bask in His presence. Seek more of Him, and stop trying to manipulate your situation or loved one in an attempt to obtain a peace only God can give. Remember, “Be alert, be reflective, because your enemy Satan roars like a lion and is walking and seeking whom he may devour” (1 Peter 5:8).

Second, praise God for something. Begin by praising Him for the goodness, forgiveness, and grace He has extended to you. How confused the Enemy must be when we praise God in the midst of our difficulties. Picturing Satan’s bewilderment gives me a reason to continue with my praise and gratitude. And, quite honestly, worship and thankfulness lifts my spirit and gives my faith a boost because “despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us” (Romans 8:37–39).

Third, demonstrate faith in all you do. Sure, on some days God seems distant. You may feel that He is withholding relief and peace; you may think He is not attempting to reach your loved one who is caught in the LGBT lifestyle. But doubt does not come from God. The Enemy seeks to steal your joy, faith, and hope. He wants to drag you far away from God. Replace doubt with the truth: “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11).

Prayer, worship time, and living in faith will wrap you a blanket of peace as you focus on God. But Christmas also opens the opportunity to serve others in love. Perhaps you could invite someone to Christmas dinner who does not have family nearby. You could also choose a name on the Salvation Army Christmas tree and give a gift to a child or adult in need. Consider visiting a soup kitchen or homeless shelter and see if there’s an opportunity to serve others as our Savior serves us 365 days a year. Jesus said, “If anyone serves Me, he must follow Me; and where I am, there My servant will be also; if anyone serves Me, the Father will honor him” (John 12:26).

Honored by the God of the Universe—let that thought fill you with joy as you enter the Christmas season this year. Rejoice! Our Savior, the Prince of Peace has come.